Finding out you’re pregnant is one thing. Trying to handle everyone’s opinions afterward can be even harder.
If your parents are encouraging you to have an abortion, you may feel like you’re being pulled in two different directions. You love your family, and their opinions matter to you. At the same time, this is a decision you’ll live with long after today’s conversations are over.
Before making a decision, take the opportunity to learn about your pregnancy and all of your options. Care Net Pregnancy Centers of Albuquerque offers free pregnancy services to help you feel more confident throughout this process.
Schedule an appointment today to speak with our caring team.
The First Conversation Doesn’t Have to Be the Last
News of an unexpected pregnancy often catches families off guard.
Your parents may immediately begin thinking about school, finances, or how your pregnancy could affect the rest of the family. Those concerns can come across as pressure, even if that’s not their intention.
As emotions settle, conversations often become more productive. You may find that your parents are more willing to listen after everyone has had time to process what they’ve learned.
Don’t Let Someone Else Rush Your Decision
When your parents are asking for immediate answers, it’s easy to feel like you have to respond right away to settle nerves.
In reality, taking time to gather more information is one of the most responsible things you can do. Learn about parenting, adoption, and abortion to ensure all your questions are answered. If you haven’t already, confirm your pregnancy with an ultrasound to learn which options may be available to you.
Knowing the facts allows you to assess which options you’re leaning toward. No one, not even your parents, can make this decision for you. After all, what you decide will affect your life and future the most.
A Fresh Perspective Can Be Helpful
Talking with someone who isn’t directly involved in your family situation can make a big difference.
It gives you the opportunity to ask questions, organize your thoughts, and explore your options without worrying about disappointing someone you love. Many women find those conversations helpful before returning to difficult discussions with family members.
At Care Net Pregnancy Centers of Albuquerque, we’re available to answer your questions and provide information about your pregnancy and your options. If you’d like a place to talk about your specific situation, we’d love to meet with you.
Schedule your free and confidential appointment today.
Care Net Pregnancy Centers of Albuquerque does not provide or refer for abortions.